What I am:

I'm a T-girl, a part time T-girl.  I dress more for fun than out of a need.  I believe that stockings and heels are the most important part of a girls wardrobe ..  stockings (40's-style fully-fashioned are my fav's) and ultra-high heels (5" or higher stiletto) !  That's the foundation really for my entire wardrobe.

Corsets, cinchers, bras, panties, garter belts, girdles, or pantyhose compliment the look as do ultra-tight, sheer or latex outerwear.  Elegantly slutty!

I'm a switch.  I can be a dominant ("on your knees, worm!") or a submissive ("Yes Master" or "Please Mistress?") and love bondage.  B&D appeals to me more than D&S or S&M but I can play in all worlds.

Bi-sexual? Not sure about that but I'll try to explain.  I only lust after women but am quite able to "play" with guys too.  Although the activities may be very similar, I consider one to be "sex" and other "play". But I do both with equal intensity.  Make sense?  Likely not, but it's just how I work I guess.

I have no problem going out in public and consider it quite exciting, but I pick my venues carefully since blending in by looking like the average woman just doesn't happen for me.  Not sure I could do it if I tried.

I love those who admire this thing we do.  I find someone's capacity to be attracted to those  who blur the gender line very hot.

I love people who are emotionally "together" and who are successful within themselves.

I love T-girls as well as admirers, and am more than happy to share the little I've learned during this journey.

And most importantly, I am a work-in-progress. Please help me evolve!

 

What I am not:

I'm not a trans-sexual.  I luv you girls but I have no desire to have the surgery necessary to become a woman.  I'm not a drag queen .. although I wish it was in me to be as flamboyant as you!  And I don't dress to justify gay tendencies. I'm not being judgmental but it's just not me.

I'm not in need of  a long-term relationship. I already have the best one on the planet!  :-)  One that allows this side of me the freedom to exist and to explore, and I luv Kim more than anything else. 

I'm not a torch bearer for the rights of the transgendered.  Although I may campaign for tolerance, I'm totally aware that I, and those like me, are "different" and have few "rights" in the world today.  I wish this was not the case but believe it to be a reality and try my best to work within that framework. 

I am not an "appearance snob" and honestly believe that the mind is the sexiest "organ" in the body.  We can all only work with what we were given .. with the exception of a minor surgery here or there .. haha!

I am not doing this to become rich but I'll only fund  a free site within certain, yet undetermined, limits.

 

In Summary:

I hope you enjoy my website and take the time to tell me if you do.

Your comments and suggestions are always appreciated and will help guide the direction I take.  And to let me know you've been here, please take a minute to sign my Guestbook.